Friends Meet Needs

Friends Meet Needs ( Philippians 4:10,14-16 )

Paul had much to be thankful about concerning the church at Philippi. They had helped Paul in many different ways, including financially and through prayers.

There is a bond that is developed when you are able to help someone else. I have seen time and time again believers that developed a great love and friendship for missionaries that they had supported through finances, prayers and perhaps even participation.

Apparently, for some reason, the church lacked the opportunity to help meet needs, but Paul rejoiced that they were able to begin again. It is noteworthy that the church tangibly met the needs.

Prayer is great - it has the most impact, truly, but we really need to be able to help others in tangible ways. For example, let's assume that you were moving. Would you rather that I tell you that I will be with you in spirit, or would you rather have me show up at your house at the agreed upon time? One is something nice to say, but in the other, you have tangible help.


Paul recognized the degree to which the church had supported him. Others had not supported Paul when he first began his ministry and through some of his problems. This church had helped him begin and that brought a deepening of a relationship between Paul and the church. When you truly align with supporting others, you may end up with some situations that are difficult. But, being a friend implies that you are willing to stick with it, through thick and thin.

In your friendships, be dependable. Be there when you are needed. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Let your friends know what they can count on you.


In your friendships, speak the truth in love. A 'yes' man may be appreciated by some people at work, but they are of little use to establishing a positive workforce. The same is true in friendships. If I tell you just what you want to hear, it really isn't going to either one of us in the long run. Be honest and truthful, but speak in love.


In your friendships, be involved in disputes. That is, help others to resolve their disputes. Sometimes, disputes will arise over essential matters. Above all, we need to hold fast to these things. If it costs a friendship, we need to stick with God and perhaps let a friendship go the side. Most of the disputes, especially in the church, are not these types of disputes, but misunderstandings and differences of opinions on non essentials.


In your friendships, meet needs. This has an underlying implication - you know the needs. Let me ask you - do you know the needs of your friends? Or, do your friends know your needs? If you hide behind any type of façade, you're not being a friend. Be real in your friendships.


Thank God for your friends. Thank Him for bringing people in your life. And, thank your friends. A phone call, a letter, an email, or a visit - these things will help to deepen your friendships. Friendships are truly a gift from God. Thank God for friends.